So you met a man and everything was going great between the two of you. Or so you thought.
Then, quick as lightning, he was out the door.
When it comes to relationships, women and men have unique perspectives. From first date etiquette to when to sleep with their partner, the outlooks are diverse.
However, when a man pulls away from the woman he’s seeing it’s usually for a specific reason.
Here are three HUGE mistakes women make that push men away.
If there’s one thing that’ll send any man running it’s a clingy woman. Sure, it’s nice to be affectionate and show him that he’s on your mind, but when you make him your be and end all, he’ll start to feel smothered. When this happens he’ll try to regain his independence by pulling away.
What’s worse is when you make it known that you’re falling for him, too quickly. Since men are looking for fun in the beginning of a relationship, letting him know that you’re already planning your future together will scare him away. Instead of showing your emotions too soon, it’s crucial that you remain calm, cool and collected.
Remember, if a man senses that a woman wants more from him and the relationship than he’s prepared to give, he will pull away.
Studies have shown that 97% of women are unhappy with their bodies at least once a day.
However, when it comes to relationships showing your insecurities is never a good idea. Sure, it’s nice to be comfortable enough to talk about your gym routine or the healthy eating kick you’re on with your man, but if you’re asking him “Do these jeans make me look fat” or nagging anytime an attractive woman talks to him, then you’re digging your own relationship grave.
The problem is that once your insecurities start to show there’s no going back. Instead of pushing him away with your self-doubts show him your happy-go-lucky side and he’ll be hooked.
A good tip to follow is to pretend that every date with your man is a first because there’s no way you’d let him see this side of you then.
They’re unhappy without him.
Just because you’re happy when you’re with him it doesn’t mean that he isn’t catching on to your negativity when he’s not in the room. In fact, if he knows that he’s your sole source of happiness then it’s likely to push him away.
The problem here is this type of situation makes him feel pressured to keep you content, and that’s a huge responsibility for anyone! Instead of relying on him to keep you smiling, make the most of your life. Do the things that you love. When you do, you’ll not only be making yourself happier, but it’ll improve the overall quality of your relationship too.
For a deeper insight on what pushes men away take a moment and watch this free video presentation.
Do you want to keep your man’s eyes on you and only you? Would you love to make him absolutely addicted to you? If so, you’re in the right place.
As you may or may not already know, there are certain things women can do to hook men. The good news is that these have nothing to do with looks, but rather attitude.
Once you can get yourself in the right mindset, you’ll not only have his attention, but like a lovesick puppy dog, he won’t leave your side.
Here’s what you need to do.
Have you ever left a date feeling mentally drained, or like you knew everything there was to know about a man? If so, you probably had little interest in seeing him again.
The same rings true for men.
If you’re the kind of woman who takes over a conversation or shares everything from your childhood memories to your deepest secrets then he’s isn’t going to be compelled to call you.
Instead of spilling your heart out to him it’s important that you hold back some information, and keep him coming around for more.
Also note that this isn’t only for in-person conversations, but it applies to text messages, phone calls, online messaging, the works.
More than just smiles, emotions in general are contagious. This means that if you’re the pessimistic or self-pitying type, those feelings are going to affect your date, too.
Even more importantly, men are attracted to happy, outgoing women. Just like you wouldn’t want to date someone who was always down, nor do men. That’s why it’s so important to be positive and try to find the good in everyday situations.
Once your man realizes that you’re the one to keep him smiling he’ll become hopelessly devoted to you.
Be hard to get.
Now this one has been disputed over the years, but believe me, it works.
Since men are hunters at heart, making him work for your love and attention will keep him chasing you. When this happens, he’ll become addicted to you.
To do so, it’s important that you’re not “too available.” This means that you don’t drop what you’re doing to see him, and you set certain standards for yourself when it comes to making plans with him.
For instance, if he calls and asks if you want to go for dinner that night, tell him that you’re busy and suggest rescheduling for a day or two later. Even if you have no plans for that night, keeping him on his toes to see you will get him hooked.
It’s also important that you’re not always the one to initiate contact with him. If you’re doing all the texting, messaging, phoning, etc., it’ll take away from his pursuit for you. Instead let him be the one to woo you.
When it comes to getting a man to commit, it’s important to know where to start.
Since you can’t force a relationship, it’s key that he feels a desire to be with you. In other words, he needs to believe that his life is greater with you in it.
That said, you can’t push or pressure him to be with you. If you do, he’ll only pull away.
To kickstart a commitment with your man, try these tips on for size.
As much as guys like to be in control, they don’t want to have to call the shots for you, too. Instead of counting on him to decide on your dinner plans or weigh in on your outfit options, do it yourself!
Men find indecisiveness draining, so if you want to keep him coming back for more it’s crucial that you learn how to be independent and have options of your own.
Do the little things.
As manly as he may seem, he still likes to be taken care of. To show you guy that life’s better with you in it be the one who goes the extra mile to make him smile.
While it’s one thing to tell him that you appreciate him, as the old saying goes, “actions speak louder than words.” Something as simple as surprising him with a nice home-cooked meal or a case of his favourite beer can do wonders for your relationship.
Keep living your own life.
It’s tough not to get swept up in romance, but if you want to make you guy commit to you it’s important that you have a life without him.
Sure, it may be great spending all of your free time with him, but if you push your life to the side for him he’ll see how easily he has you.
On the other hand, if you make him work for your time by keeping busy with friends, family and other hobbies he’ll not only want to see you more, but he’ll even miss you when you’re not around.
Be willing to try new things.
Whether it’s a foreign cuisine or a kinky sex position, being open and willing to try new things with your man is important, especially when it comes to getting him to commit.
Since most men are adventurous at heart, keeping your relationship exciting and new will prevent him from feeling bored or looking elsewhere for love.
Be his rock.
When a man knows he can rely on you he’ll feel a connection to you like no other. Thus, if you want him to commit to a relationship, you need to be the one he can count on.
To show him this it’s important that you’re a woman of your word. Meaning, if you say you’re going to do something, do it. When he knows he can depend on you to follow through he’ll feel secure with you.
It’s also important that you have an open ear, and be the person he can talk to about anything and everything. When he does share his hopes and dreams with you encourage him to chase them. Never tell him that something is out of his reach, but rather be his biggest fan.
For more tips on how to make your man commit to you click the link below and watch my video:
Wishing you love and happiness,
REVIEW OF “THE DEVOTION SYSTEM” BY AMY NORTH
OVERALL: 9.7 / 10
EFFECTIVENESS: 9.9 / 10
FORMAT: 9.4 / 10
VALUE: 9.7 / 10
The Devotion System by Amy North is a welcome addition to the online world of relationship advice. A professional relationship coach by trade, Ms. North offers up her own comprehensive advice on how to find, keep, and nurture a loving relationship to women everywhere in this info-packed first ebook. It’s easily the best program of its kind, and is guaranteed to be very helpful for any woman struggling to find and keep a quality man.
It’s hard to imagine a better, more comprehensive guide to finding and keeping a soulmate than Amy North’s new program called “The Devotion System”. Simply put, the innovative techniques and little-known tricks included in The Devotion System program give any woman the tools necessary to find her soulmate and build a loving relationship with him.
The Devotion System contains advice on arguably every aspect of dating for women; from getting a guy’s number and sending the first text to how to bring up the ‘M word’ (yes, the dreaded marriage talk); from keeping things sexy after children to preventing infidelity long-term. This book has advice for every woman at any stage in her quest to find love.
Maybe it’s me, but there don’t seem to be many women in the dating advice business…. or at least, there aren’t many that actually offer any new advice or techniques outside of what you can already find in Cosmo magazine. That’s one reason why I found The Devotion System so refreshing. Amy North is a woman’s woman– smart, insightful and straightforward, she tells it like it is, and she cares about her clients. That fact is clear from the very beginning.
The book is divided into 3 parts, and the first is devoted completely to the importance of self-love and letting go of hang-ups and unhealthy behaviors in order to successfully find a loving relationship that lasts. North goes into great depth about the problems previous “relationship hangovers” can cause– both to one’s present happiness and future relationships– and the advice she provides in this section alone is of major value. Reading advice from a woman concerned with empowering women and helping them get what they want is a great place to start.
Add to that parts 2 and 3 (on understanding men and achieving love and commitment respectively), and you have yourself an insightful collection of advice and information that you can use over and over at different stages of your life and relationship(s).
As a relationship and dating coach, Amy North also enjoys insight from the men she works with, so there are several sections that provide information on male psychology, too. From common male fears and insecurities to their true sexual and intimacy-related desires, she offers readers a wealth of knowledge on the men they could be dating – including profiles on typical “types” and what to expect from them.
Add to that actionable psychology- and science-based tips on texting, flirting, reading him, seducing him, satisfying him and more, and you have a book that will prove useful to its owner again and again. This stuff actually works, too — the new strategies Amy covers in The Devotion System were very effective when put to use in the real world.
If there’s a flaw to this book, it’s that there’s no physical version available yet. Currently, The Devotion System is only available in online e-book format, so if you want a paper copy for now you’ll have to print it yourself. That said, this also means that buyers get access to the program within a minute or two of completing the registration process, even if it’s 3am and you’re lying in bed.
The program itself is nicely divided into bite-size sections organized across The Devotion System’s private and personalized client-accessed website, making chapters easy to locate and revisit. Overall, even though the format of the program was the area given the lowest score (9.4 out of 10) in our ratings, it is still the among the best out there in terms of ease-of-use and overall presentation.
Not only that, but the book currently comes with technical and customer support included and several other bonuses, including a 13-part video training series and 3 bonus ebooks including Cheat-Proofing Your Relationship in the package.
For a limited time, The Devotion System is also being sold at a heavily-discounted introductory price of $48.25, which is a steal by any standards. Amy North also offers an unconditional 60 day money back guarantee with every copy of the program, so there’s no risk to trying it out for yourself…. which means that, when you add it all up, this book is a must-have and easily the best women’s dating guide available.
Who is Amy North?
Before we dive too far into the program itself, let us take a look at the woman behind it all. Amy North is a relationship coach who hails from Vancouver, Canada. With a degree in Social Psychology, North has over five years worth of experience as a dating coach. She has completed a number of dating courses and seminars. In addition, she is also a best-selling author.
The Devotion System: An Overview
What exactly is Amy North’s Devotion System? In short, it is a relationship guide designed for women by a woman. It is meant to serve as a teaching tool of sorts to teach a woman how to not just make a guy fall head over heels for her, but how to strengthen their bond and keep him.
There are several tips and step-by-step walkthroughs in the program to help you succeed in your dating journeys. North created this program by utilizing her background and education, having put in a lot of research and studies in an attempt to design something as accurate as possible.
When you receive your package, you will get an interactive eBook in addition to a 13-part training video series.
What You Will Learn
The Devotion System is divided into a few separate categories with each one designed to cover different topics. They are meant to teach something new in order to help reach various goals. Take a look below at a quick rundown of some of these categories to help you get a clearer picture of what you will learn with the dating program:
- Body Language: Understand everything a man is thinking by examining his body language and gesture. Each move means something.
- Cat String Concept: This teaches you tricks on how to keep the man of your dreams chasing after you.
- Mind Virus: It is a term that refers to what is responsible for pushing a man away. The Devotion System aims to help you recognize this in order to eliminate it for good.
- Inner Marilyn: This is a category that focuses on both you and the man. It teaches you ways to have a man go crazy over you while also teaching you to increase your own self-worth and confidence.
- Love Refreshment: Learn these particular lines to use them on your man so that he feels regret in his heart and mind for ever ignoring you or betraying your trust. It is also useful if you want your man to come crawling back if he ever cheats.
- Love Methodology: This topic will aid in getting you into your man’s mind so that he will picture you as the “ideal woman”. Meaning, he will never want anyone but you.
- Love Buzz Mindset: To help construct a lasting relationship, this technique creates utter devotion in your man’s heart, making him marriage material.
- Phone Phrenzy: As the name of the technique implies, this category teaches you ways to have him itching to call you, even if it is just for the sake of hearing your voice.
In addition to the categories listed above, The Devotion System comes with three bonus sections:
- Textual Chemistry: Teaches texting secrets to grab any man’s attention.
- Finding Love Online: Walkthrough on how to find a good man online.
- Cheat-Proofing Your Relationship: This teaches you how to make a man faithful and loyal for life.
All of these methods have been carefully designed by researching psychological aspects from both men and women, and also by discovering certain loopholes to help a man fall in love with you. Not only that, but The Devotion System reveals secrets to help transform your own personality in positive ways.
The techniques utilized will boost the emotional connection and intimacy you feel with your partner or with the man you are going after. You will learn what to do when he is feeling low, how to tap into his thoughts and feelings to boost him up, and how to leave a permanent mark on his mind so all he thinks about is you.
Furthermore, this program teaches pure seductive techniques. These techniques aim to trigger a primal response in men so that they go crazy over you. At the same time, you will learn to avoid any emotional or irrational mistakes that can turn him off for good.
You can even learn to use certain techniques on an ex-boyfriend that you want back in your life. Ignite old feelings so that he feels inspired to reach back out to you and rekindle that flame.
The methods used in The Devotion System attempt to provide you with the means to grow a healthier, mature relationship that only continues to grow stronger with time.
Advantages of the Program
To help with your decision on whether or not to purchase The Devotion System, take a look below at the main advantages found with it:
- You will be provided with unique psychological information about men such as why they pull away, misconceptions women have about them, various types of men, what they respond to and don’t respond to, etc.
- The program is highly versatile. Meaning, it can work for women who are single and taken. For single women, it can help find the man of your dreams. For those who are already in a relationship, it can help you strengthen the bond you have with your significant other.
- It can help you build self-confidence and teach women to embrace inner beauty. Unfortunately, many women lack a positive self-image, which can damage their pursuit of happiness. So, building confidence is important.
- This program is user-friendly. The language used is simple and to-the-point, and there is even a quiz after each section to ensure you understood it all. Everything is detailed and organized so that anyone can follow along and not get lost.
- There is a 100% money-back guarantee. If you are ever dissatisfied in any way with the program, you do not have to worry about wasting your money as you can get it all back. There is no risk with ordering this product.
Disadvantages of the Program
As with all products, there are some drawbacks with The Devotion System. Anyone thinking about making a purchase should do so with all the information laid out. It is a big investment, so be sure you know what you are getting into:
- The program is only available in a digital format. Not everyone is able to or is willing to read online whether through their phone, tablet, or computer. It is unfortunate that you cannot find this on bookshelves in the stores as there are individuals who prefer to have a physical copy in-hand. This aspect of the product can easily turn some people away.
- It can be expensive compared to other dating courses, especially considering it is just an e-course. Everything that it offers can sometimes make up for the steep price. However, it may be worthwhile to wait and see when it goes on sale.
- This requires a great deal of patience. The Devotion System is not something you can just purchase, skim through, and expect results. You must take the time to read, watch, learn, and apply the methods if you want to succeed. If you lack the time to invest, then it may be better if you save your money until you do have that time.
- You need to have some incredible perseverance. The program may very well take a lot out of you, especially if you put in all the work and time and don’t see any results. You need to have the right kind of endurance and determination to see this through. Otherwise, it probably will not work.
So, what is the verdict? On the whole, it appears that The Devotion System from Amy North can very well be a successful dating and relationship course. It is ideal as it works for any woman whether she is single or in a relationship. The program is filled with countless amounts of tips and practical, sound advice to help you find and keep the man of your dreams.
This is a program that can help you tap into the psychological aspect of a man’s mind so that he will think only of you. Further, it will teach you to look deeper within yourself as well to help you develop self-confidence and improve your self-image. Although it does indeed come with a couple of drawbacks that may turn some people away from purchasing, Amy North is offering up a 60-day money-back guarantee. There is absolutely no risk in trying this out if you want.